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Do you struggle with jealousy... the judgments... the miss-trust...and the emotions that seem to control your life? Do you want to be free from jealousy... but don't actually know how to overcome it? Jealousy Is A Powerful Emotion That Can Take Control Of Your Life Everyone experiences jealousy; it's certainly nothing new to humanity. But it has the power to destroy relationships and make your life miserable. Trust is the bond that holds us together, and jealousy attacks that bond. When you stop trusting people, you enter a prison that keeps you distant from everyone around you. And humans have one core need: To be loved. You can't truly experience love, from neither friends nor your spouse, when you don't trust them. It cuts you off from the very thing you need the most in life. Jealousy also inspires dangerous emotions in us. Emotions are fickle things, and though they're extremely helpful in life, they can also miss-lead you. Jealousy can get you feeling things such as anger, rage, and hatred - and sometimes for no reason! If you're not careful, these emotions can destroy your life. Mastering Jealousy Is Essential To Healthy Human Relationships. If we don't learn to master this emotion, it can seriously damage our lives. Despite how you may feel, you can overcome jealousy. But first you must learn to identify it. Many people experience jealousy and don't even realize it. All they know is that they don't like someone at work, or a neighbor, or friend. They wouldn't call it jealousy, but anger or contempt. But these emotions can just be the surface manifestations of jealousy. If you really took a look at yourself, you might see that you don't like your co-worker because they have a better office than you, or get more sales than you. And that makes you jealous, which inspires anger, which makes you not like the person. So if you could just deal with jealousy, your work experience could me far more enjoyable. Now, jealousy is sometimes warranted because someone has actually done something to wrong you...But that emotion can become more of a prison than a release, and overcoming it will help you enjoy life to the fullest. But many people don't know the first thing about overcoming jealousy. Part of the reason is that some people assume jealousy is just a part of life...And that you're just going to have to live with it. But that's simply just not true. It’s not terribly difficult to overcome jealousy, you just need to learn how to identify it, and effective tools for dealing with it...But many people just don't know how to start. This book, Overcoming Jealousy will take your life to another level. Ask yourself: - Do you really want to live in the dark about how to overcome this emotion? - How many of your relationships and opportunities have been sabotaged by jealousy, and you didn't even know it!? - How free could you be if you simply knew how to identify and deal with these emotions? This book can help you come out of the dark and start dealing with jealousy today. In it, you'll discover things like: - Identifying Jealousy… In order to know where it's holding you back in life. - Understanding Jealousy… So you can find the root of the issue and deal with it. - Different Types of Jealousy... Know all the different kinds of jealousy and how they can affect you. - Techniques for Overcoming Jealousy... Finally be free in ways you didn't think possible. - And a lot more! Why be held back any longer? Take control of your life and start living it. Overcoming jealousy isn't a great mystery; you just have to know what you're doing... If you've ever wanted to be free from jealousy, but didn't know where to start, then you must read this book. It contains everything you need to know in order to help you overcome your jealousy.
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    Siddhartha is a novel by Hermann Hesse that deals with the spiritual journey of self-discovery of a man named Siddhartha during the time of the Buddha.
    The book, Hesse's ninth novel (1922), was written in German, in a simple, lyrical style. It was published in the U.S. in 1951 and became influential during the 1960s. Hesse dedicated Siddhartha to his wife Meiner Frau Ninon gewidmet  and supposedly afterwards to Romain Rolland and Wilhelm Gundert.
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    Siddhartha crosses a river and the generous ferryman, who Siddhartha is unable to pay, merrily predicts that Siddhartha will return to the river later to compensate him in some way. Venturing onward toward city life, Siddhartha discovers Kamala, the most beautiful woman he has yet seen. Kamala, a courtesan of affluent men, notes Siddhartha's handsome appearance and fast wit, telling him that he must become wealthy to win her affections so that she may teach him the art of love. Although Siddhartha despised materialistic pursuits as a Samana, he agrees now to Kamala's suggestions. She directs him to the employ of Kamaswami, a local businessman, and insists that he have Kamaswami treat him as an equal rather than an underling. Siddhartha easily succeeds, providing a voice of patience and tranquility against Kamaswami's fits of passion, which Siddhartha learned from his days as an ascetic. Thus, Siddhartha becomes a rich man and Kamala's lover, though in his middle years realizes that the luxurious lifestyle he has chosen is merely a game, empty of spiritual fulfillment. Leaving the fast-paced bustle of the city, Siddhartha returns to the river and thinks of killing himself. He is saved only by an internal experience of the holy word, Om. The very next morning Siddhartha briefly reconnects with Govinda, who is passing through the area and remains a wandering Buddhist.
    Siddhartha decides to live out the rest of his life in the presence of the spiritually inspirational river. Siddhartha thus reunites with the ferryman, named Vasudeva, with whom he begins a humbler way of life. Although Vasudeva is a simple man, he understands and relates that the river has many voices and significant messages to divulge to any who might listen.
    Some years later, Kamala, now a Buddhist convert, is travelling to see the Buddha at his deathbed, escorted reluctantly by her young son, when she is bitten by a venomous snake near Siddhartha's river. Siddhartha recognizes her and realizes that the boy is his own child. After Kamala's death, Siddhartha attempts to console and raise the furiously resistant boy, until one day the child flees altogether. Although Siddhartha is desperate to find his runaway son, Vasudeva urges him to let the boy find his own path, much like Siddhartha did himself in his youth. Listening to the river with Vasudeva, Siddhartha realizes that time is an illusion and that all of his feelings and experiences, even those of suffering, are part of a great and ultimately jubilant fellowship of all things connected in the cyclical unity of nature. With Siddhartha's moment of illumination, Vasudeva claims that his work is done and he must depart into the woods, leaving Siddhartha peacefully fulfilled and alone once more.
    Toward the end of his life, Govinda hears about an enlightened ferryman and travels to Siddhartha, not initially recognizing him as his old childhood friend. Govinda asks the now-elderly Siddhartha to relate his wisdom and Siddhartha replies that for every true statement there is an opposite one that is also true; that language and the confines of time lead people to adhere to one fixed belief that does not account for the fullness of the truth. Because nature works in a self-sustaining cycle, every entity carries in it the potential for its opposite and so the world must always be considered complete. Siddhartha simply urges people to identify and love the world in its completeness. Siddhartha then oddly requests that Govinda kiss his forehead and, when he does, Govinda experiences the visions of timelessness that Siddhartha himself saw with Vasudeva by the river. Govinda bows to his wise friend and Siddhartha smiles radiantly, having found enlightenment.

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    Siddhartha: The protagonist
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    Gotama: A spiritual leader Buddha, whose Teachings are rejected, rather whose power of self-experience and self-wisdom is completely praised and followed by Siddhartha.
    Kamaswami: A merchant who instructs Siddhartha on business.
    Siddhartha’s Father: A Brahmin who was unable to satisfy Siddhartha's quest for enlightenment.
    The Samanas: Traveling ascetics who tell Siddhartha that deprivation leads to enlightenment.

    In Hesse’s novel, experience, the totality of conscious events of a human life, is shown as the best way to approach understanding of reality and attain enlightenment – Hesse’s crafting of Siddhartha’s journey shows that understanding is attained not through scholastic, mind-dependent methods, nor through immersing oneself in the carnal pleasures of the world and the accompanying pain of samsara; however, it is the completeness of these experiences that allow Siddhartha to attain understanding.
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    A major preoccupation of Hesse in writing Siddhartha was to cure his 'sickness with life' (Lebenskrankheit) by immersing himself in Indian philosophy such as that expounded in the Upanishads and the Bhagavad Gita. The reason the second half of the book took so long to write was that Hesse "had not experienced that transcendental state of unity to which Siddhartha aspires. In an attempt to do so, Hesse lived as a virtual semi-recluse and became totally immersed in the sacred teachings of both Hindu and Buddhist scriptures. His intention was to attain to that 'completeness' which, in the novel, is the Buddha's badge of distinction." The novel is structured on three of the traditional stages of life for Hindu males (student (brahmacarin), householder (grihastha) and recluse/renunciate (vanaprastha)) as well as the Buddha's four noble truths (Part One) and eight-fold path (Part Two) which form twelve chapters, the number in the novel. Ralph Freedman mentions how Hesse commented in a letter "[my] Siddhartha does not, in the end, learn true wisdom from any teacher, but from a river that roars in a funny way and from a kindly old fool who always smiles and is secretly a saint." In a lecture about Siddhartha, Hesse claimed "Buddha's way to salvation has often been criticized and doubted, because it is thought to be wholly grounded in cognition. True, but it's not just intellectual cognition, not just learning and knowing, but spiritual experience that can be earned only through strict discipline in a selfless life". Freedman also points out how Siddhartha described Hesse's interior dialectic: "All of the contrasting poles of his life were sharply etched: the restless departures and the search for stillness at home; the diversity of experience and the harmony of a unifying spirit; the security of religious dogma and the anxiety of freedom."

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